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Staying single can be hard... but devoting the time to cultivate an ease within myself may just be one of the greatest gifts I can give myself

You can trust the universe and divine timing, and also feel a little lonely and emotional sometimes.

It’s underratedly hard to just sit and do “nothing.”

I’ve lost my way. Not in some big, dramatic crash-and-burn kind of way—but enough that it finally hit me last week: I’ve drifted off course, and it’s time to realign.

It still hurts AND I'm happier.

In my post  last week, I shared about my multiple failed attempts at staying boy-free for three months—an arbitrary goal I’d made up in...

Some dramatic actions need to be taken if I'm going to stay single this summer.

Receiving feedback—or even criticism—from the people you love is hard. It also gives you one of the best opportunities to grow.  The...

This weekend marked a new beginning for me on a few fronts.  To begin with, it finally feels like the sun is starting to triumph over the...

It’s been a few years and it feels so good to be back.  After a particularly insightful conversation on relationship patterns with a good...

This week, I got a little hurt by a boy. The first thing I did, as I started to feel an overwhelming amount of feelings—sadness,...

Last week, one of the most annoying things that can happen while traveling happened to me.  I got up at 4:30am to make it to the airport...

I’ll admit that this one is a little out there, but when I committed to writing weekly posts, I promised that I’d always write about the...

Last week was a bit of a week.  Ever hit that point where you’ve dealt with just a liiiiiiiittle too much bullshit, and the idea of...

I love an “aha!” moment. One that invokes a couldn’t-have-said-it-better-myself, puzzle-piece-fitting feeling.  A whopping ten pages into...

And it hurt more than I was expecting it to.  It’s been over six months since we last spoke and, for the most part, my desire to reach...

It’s 2025!! To celebrate, a couple friends and I gathered last night to say our thanks to all that 2024 brought us and welcome in the new...

It’s taken me 28 years to embrace the fact that winning has exactly nothing to do with coming in first place. It has nothing to do with...

One of the most liberating mindset shifts I’ve undergone in the last few years is that I’ve adopted an ‘everything will work itself out’...

Last week, as I was vacuuming seemingly endless amounts of dog fur off my living room floor, a realization hit me: at long last, I feel...