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Following on my tradition of writing thank you letters to my exes (see here  and here ), I have another one to add to the list.  We...

If you haven’t already noticed, my page is not an advice column. Much like Carrie Bradshaw chronicled the New York dating scene she...

It’s a huge turn off for me when a guy refers to his ex-girlfriend as crazy.  My immediate thought is that this guy is disrespectful and...

For the last 2 months, I’d been seeing someone.  He is kind and passionate, honest and caring.  He is also not my person.  These moments...

I love talking about relationships in therapy.  To have someone who is unbiased and unattached to the situation weighing in with...

One of the most helpful things a friend can do is give you feedback.  Even if you think you’re an exceptionally introspective and...

This week, I got a little hurt by a boy. The first thing I did, as I started to feel an overwhelming amount of feelings—sadness,...

It’s taken me 28 years to embrace the fact that winning has exactly nothing to do with coming in first place. It has nothing to do with...

Last week, as I was vacuuming seemingly endless amounts of dog fur off my living room floor, a realization hit me: at long last, I feel...

I have a history of letting guys walk all over me. It’s annoying to admit, but it’s true. When it comes to love and desire, I’ve always...

“I just worry about you because you tend to take on all the interests of whoever you’re dating.” This was a concern that my best friend...

“Have you been partying and drinking a lot?,”  my nail tech asked with a smirk.  This was her response to my divulging that, a few months...

I’m a podcast junkie. Anything and everything passes through my headphones, from interviews with academics and creatives to comedy and...

Three months post-breakup, I came to the realization that I was stuck at a standstill.  Over months of intentional healing, I had...

Last week, I found myself feeling frustrated and hurt.  A close friend of mine, who lives in another city, was in town and hadn’t made...

Mi amor, It wasn’t until I met and fell in love with you that I fully understood what people mean when they said that love hurts. But...

Honey, Every time I look back on the years we spent together, I am filled with gratitude. When we first met, I was just a young woman...

Hard times are hard. The only thing that makes them bearable is knowing that you'll come out the other side with some valuable lessons...

Do you ever have those moments where you take a step back and go “Woah, woah — what the heck has been up with my decision-making until...

I’m doing exactly what I know I’m not supposed to be doing. I’m standing at the base of my mountain, staring up at the peak that lies...